I think I need to be in a community with more adults in it. not because of nsfw but I think it would help to have people to hang out with that are more emotionally developed than I am
"you already know people just DM them!" unfortunately I am terrible at starting conversations and just leave them to collect dust. unless it's about venting or touch starvation. which can get a little much so I don't do that unless they really want it
@eblu somehow I am an adult
but yeah, dealing with people younger than me all the time can get to be a headache. finding a chill group of people who aren't going to explode is really nice