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i am indeed that fucking stupid holy shit.
Ok so it now works and with internet access too! with the exception of my host pc, i can't ping my router form my host no more and ports are still not working on the host and honestly im not gonna bother, im probably going to route ssh through a unix socket and be done with it.
I also stopped using dhcpcd because i'm to lazy to sync the vm ip and the host ipvtap ip