sex repulsed is like. the pride of pride imo
you're in this community but you're actually not because everyone is talking about all the different ways to love and make love with someone and if you're just full on aroace then you are just Not part of the conversation. sorry buddy. you can sit at the kids table I guess
i feel that with the "different ways to love" because what if i don't want to love? it's just tiresome
@eblu while I certainly see this, I've greatly reduced this feeling in myself in a variety of ways
The two big ones are the broader recognition of the word "queer" when used as an academic term and actually lets me feel real solidarity (and won't fit in this toot)
And finding an online peer group with a different social chemistry where (to re-appropriate a phrase) "it's not always thrown in my face"
Here's hoping this, like many of the inter-group struggles, can at least remain chill